Healing from my ex

  Why is racism still around in this day and age especially  in New Zealand  when it's such a multicultural country and most countries are multicultural  these days!  In Auckland alone there have been 3 violent attacks against people for their race, a 16yr old boy on a bus heading to school was violently attacked by a woman all because he is mixed race Chinese/European, she called him a series of racial slurs and attacked him with a metal pipe smashing him around the head breaking 3 teeth and knocking out 2, no cops were called everyone on the bus turned a blind eye except a 71yr old man, the bus driver didn't even stop 😳, when the bus driver got to the next stop he kicked the kid off the bus who was bleeding from his mouth and the woman who attacked him she bolted out the door and down the road. He didn't provoke this woman he didn't even say anything to her she just saw him and started attacking him all cos of his race. Another attack was on another bus a wom...

Today we are going to look at priorities …. Here is a scenario of what I call shit parenting   ( and severe lack of priorities) If you found out your 14yr old kid was doing drugs would you A   be concerned about that and do everything in your power to find out who is selling your kid drugs, why your kid is doing drugs, and how they are paying for these drugs … Or B be upset that someone accused your child of bullying …. The gossip of browns bay her son got excluded from Rangitoto college (it’s cos he was 14 at the time and under 16 is called excluded   means he’s not allowed to come back to the school but the school have to find another school for him to attend ) anyway he got excluded from the school for doing drugs in the toilets. Now most parents would be choosing A, oh no not fuckin gossip britches she chose B   yelled at me on the street over the fact that my son accused her kid of bullying ( a year and a half later)   absolutely no concern ...

  Today I want to talk about suicide in Hawaii September is suicide awareness month that's from the 1st September  to the 30th September, for New Zealand we have one day which is to remember  and raise awareness  about suicide it coincides with world suicide  prevention day that is the 10th September. Every year more than 720,000 people die from suicide around the world. It's the 3rd leading cause of death amongst 15-29yr olds. For every  suicide  there are 4 times more people who have attempted suicide. New Zealands youth suicide rate for adolescents aged 15-19 was reported to be the highest of 41 OCED/EU countries . 23% had significant  depressive symptoms up from 13% in 2012. 62% of young people had attempted suicide with females being higher at 7.3% than males at 5% 19% said they had difficulty  getting help for their emotional concerns. 53% reported they had significant  depressive symptoms, half of this group had also reported they...

 Today I am going to talk about one of the most horrific crimes that ever happened in Invercargill, it’s a story about a girl who dated a guy, had a baby and split from him as he was abusive and then one night she took their 3 month old child to meet him at a hotel in Invercargill and while there he beat her to death and stabbed her multiple times all the while her baby slept in the room next door. This story is going to show you what some people are capable of when they don’t get their way or when they can’t control the person they use to. A little baby girl grows up without her mother cos she was murdered. Domestic violence is not just beatings, its emotional, mental, psychological , and verbal. And for some women the only way they escape the relationship is thru death . 1 in 3 woman in nz have experienced in their lifetime some form of domestic abuse and one in every 20 woman will die at the hands of the person who claims to love them. This story is about Azalia Wilson and ...

  Today I was verbally yelled at by some super unstable and psychotic person - she had a go at me about shit that happened over a year ago ( you read that right) over a year a go apparently  I am her source of gossip and entertainment  cos she stated that she often laughs at me and talks about me fuckin hell you need to get out more I don't think or talk about you at all you're not  worth  my time or energy - she's the one whose son was booted from the school for drugs😑, the whole school knew about it the kids talked about it last year for days on end.  She clearly doesn't understand  that if she ran as much as she ran her mouth she would be fit and healthy instead the only thing getting any  exercise is her mouth. I avoid people like her cos one I don't give a fuck and two if she is gossiping about someone to you, she's definitely  gossiping about you to others those are the people you don't want in your life they will always be the source ...

  Today I am going to talk about adults when is a child a child and when are they an adult, the law in nz states that a person is legally an adult at 20, but parents are only legally responsible  for you til you are 18, so when someone commits murder at 19 are they legally an adult or are they still considered a child??  Back in 2018 Jack McAllister ( also known as Jade Fearn )was stabbed to death by a group of people who decided to go after him based off a rumor, without doing any form of research or working out if the person claiming what he did to them was true, they decided to have Jack lured to the southland stadium and taught a lesson they took knives but claimed they weren't intending to use them 😐, Laura scheepers txt Jack luring him go the stadium saying she wanted to have sex with him , Jack is a kid who was 19 and just trying to find his place in the world where he fitted in, it is an awkward age for many people but even more for someone who had a pretty rough...

DIY Well it’s coming into August my parents are off to Budapest on Thursday and are away for 2 months, they are biking up the Danube River all the way to Switzerland. While they are away I am doing up my son’s room, I have filled in all the holes with wall paste, and just have to sand them down and redo any of the holes that aren’t quite filled up, I am also re-wallpapering and fixing the gap in the floor between the carpet and the door ( my son has a deck off his room) the carpet had worn through so the carpet nails have come thru, I do have a mat over it at present but since I am also laying down carpet tiles ( foam backed for extra padding) I am going to fix the gap first before I get the carpet tiles. He wants a travel room as he is wanting to become a flight attendant, I have peel and stick wallpaper in white wood design, I bought an electric drill and screwdriver, I am adding a rod to the top of the sliding door for rod curtains, these are scenery curtains ( they have a pictu...