Healing from my ex

  Doing both parts together cos it's just easier I have other blogs I have way more interest in that I will be putting up later this week since I am doing nothing much but indoor exercise due to it going to be raining literally  for a week 🙄😑. Today I am going to share with you abit about my last relationship yes it ended about 4yrs ago but there are now things that I never said anything about that should be addressed – first off the relationship ended when my ex decided he didn’t want to be in one anymore and ended it on my birthday 🙄 Secondly it was what followed 5mths after the relationship that has been the opening of my eyes and seen who he truly is that had made me not trust anything he ever said to me and realized he is a narcissistic person who doesn’t take responsibility for his actions and loves to play victim. Let’s start at Feb 2023– well school start my son goes to the biggest high school in Auckland – my ex is a groundsman there ( Damian Gannaway) – I would of...

Total definition  of my ex 😏  Update part 910 just kidding 😆 Today while at the Café minding my own business writing up my finishing touches on not only my next blog but also a hard copy for a friend who is trying to get the govt to understand the situation of the coming opioid crisis that will be hitting our shores  soon ( it's already in Australia) my ex Damian Gannaway  rocks on up and dumps a box on the table ( gave me the fright of my life cos I have my headphones on playing music I can’t hear anything ) anyway after sorting shit and turning my music off he goes on about here is some stuff you gave me like what 4 yrs after we split you think now I want shit back (move on buttercup) then goes if you hadn’t harassed me – (what the fuck you stalked me harassed me, lied about me, I just wrote it all on a blog cos you’re  fuckin dick 😆, played victim when you’re the problem, he even had a crybaby moment about my blog – fuck off loser my blog s...

  So it's been two years since my ex Damain and I split I call it 2 yrs of freedom and learning  cos I have learnt so much about how others play victim to get sympathy, 😑 I have also learnt that he is besides mentally unstable a pathological lier, when we broke up he told me took mental health very seriously cos as he put it,  his mother slit her throat ( she didn't) she died of a heart attack he took me to her grave site I read the inscription and did some research. I also find it weird that he says that he takes mental health seriously when I found out from the gossip bitch of browns bay that she and him laughed at my blog about me losing someone I cared about to suicide, WOW, both her and him need to take a good look at themselves if they find someone dying from suicide a joke, hope the never lose someone to suicide cos I am  sure they would be pretty pissed if they find out others were laughing about it 😑🤦‍♀️ ( Clearly Damian doesn't give a shit  about ot...

  Today is a recap of my original blogs and an update for those that need to know. In March last year I got an email from my sons school Rangitoto college telling me I was not allowed on the school property due to my ex Damian Jon Gannaway saying he had a police complaint against me. That same day I went to the police station gave the officer there my full name date of birth and home address and asked for a full check to see if there was anything against my name or any police complaint laid against me – he told me no and asked why I wanted to know I showed him the email he said all complaints have case numbers and my name isn’t in their system. No surprises there I have never broken the law and I worked in volunteer work dealing with vulnerable women and children so I already knew I was clean. This happened 6 months after my ex and I broke up I don’t know why he made up this lie but I did have to inform my other volunteer workplace about the incident, they re-vetted me thru ...

This is my ex Damian Gannaway -( he is the reason I trust less people than before - lying about me to the school to have some sort of payback is childish and narcissistic )  This is the email the school sent me - this is the one that screwed my ex over lying to your workplace cos you don't like me is dumb - this email is no longer relevant as the school sorted everything out the deputy that signed this is friends with my ex - I don't trust any of them now and everything my ex told me I don't believe - cos he's a compulsive lier - once you lie about something as serious as this everything you say and have said is no longer believed - clearly saying it about me isn't the first time he had done this but this is clearly the first time he has been caught out in his lies 😑