PRIORITIES

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Today we are going to look at priorities ….

Here is a scenario of what I call shit parenting  ( and severe lack of priorities)

If you found out your 14yr old kid was doing drugs would you

A  be concerned about that and do everything in your power to find out who is selling your kid drugs, why your kid is doing drugs, and how they are paying for these drugs …

Or

B be upset that someone accused your child of bullying ….

The gossip of browns bay her son got excluded from Rangitoto college (it’s cos he was 14 at the time and under 16 is called excluded  means he’s not allowed to come back to the school but the school have to find another school for him to attend ) anyway he got excluded from the school for doing drugs in the toilets. Now most parents would be choosing A, oh no not fuckin gossip britches she chose B  yelled at me on the street over the fact that my son accused her kid of bullying ( a year and a half later)  absolutely no concern about her kid at 14 ( fuckin 14 start of year 10) doing drugs in the school toilets, that is just fuckin shit parenting right there.

Your child should be your main priority, the fact that at 14 he was doing drugs means that cyfs ( child protection agency) more than likely should have been involved, kids usually don’t just do drugs for the hell of it there is always some underlying reason, the fact that gossip britches  seems to think that isn’t as important as going off at the mother of  someone who accused her kid of bullying tells me everything I need to know about her and her severe lack of priorities and parenting skills, she maybe over 55 but she has fuck all parenting skills and really should take a fuckin course on how not to be a completely  hopeless parent.

Your job as a parent  is to raise children so they will be a useful and productive member  of society , not to raise drug addicts or not give a shit that your 14yr old kid is a drug  addict. Put some of that energy that you use towards  gossiping about other people to tracking down the person who thought is was perfectly okay to sell your 14yr old kid drugs . Go knock on their door and have a chat with them, be the parent not his friend – that is your fuckin job if you can’t do that then you shouldn’t have had any kids.

Grow a pair and go and find the person selling your kid drugs and confront them, instead of being a shit parent with no fuckin parenting skills… 😑

Priorities  are the things we consider most important to us that we put first if you are a parent that should be your kid and their health and wellbeing , knowing what they are and aren’t doing and who their friends are. You should also know if your kid is doing drugs or not extreme changes in behavior are usually  a good indication  along with sneaky behavior, and loads of lying.

Moral of the story DON’T DO DRUGS KIDS AND MAKE SOMETHING OF YOURSELF, SCHOOL IS FOR LEARNING NOT DOING DRUGS


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