Recap Of Damian

 

Today is a recap of my original blogs and an update for those that need to know.

In March last year I got an email from my sons school Rangitoto college telling me I was not allowed on the school property due to my ex Damian Jon Gannaway saying he had a police complaint against me.

That same day I went to the police station gave the officer there my full name date of birth and home address and asked for a full check to see if there was anything against my name or any police complaint laid against me – he told me no and asked why I wanted to know I showed him the email he said all complaints have case numbers and my name isn’t in their system. No surprises there I have never broken the law and I worked in volunteer work dealing with vulnerable women and children so I already knew I was clean.

This happened 6 months after my ex and I broke up I don’t know why he made up this lie but I did have to inform my other volunteer workplace about the incident, they re-vetted me thru the police and I passed which I knew I already would, but it was more for their peace of mind, I recently left that volunteer place as I am due to have an operation which will leave me with no voice for 2 months.

Damian has never once apologized for making this lie up and continues to believe he didn’t do anything wrong. 😑

I went to the school after seeing a lawyer as I felt very discriminate against, the deputy principle I saw along with my son’s Dean who I had been communicating with read the email I had received and told me to disregard that and they would deal with it in-house.

I dont trust a lot of people especially people who don’t get both sides of a story or do some police checking to see if the persons story is correct before making an idiot of themselves.

Sorting it in-house was fine by me I figured it would save the mess of getting lawyers involved and having issues that way also asked if they couldn’t fire him ad it is his job and I figured he was going thru some mental health issues ( knowing what I know now I should have gotten a lawyer involved and charged him with making false allegations against me ) I mainly came onto the school grounds to drop off bookmarks at the library I make picture ones with beautiful photos that people from around the world have given me and some pictures I get from Pinterest.

Today is the 31st October 2024( Halloween for those that support it) today I got an email from the head of our PTA second hand shop someone I have been working with.

She sent an email to say that according to staff I wasn’t allowed on school grounds which was news to me and I hadn’t received any email stating that. So guess where I went this morning???? That’s right to Rangitoto college to the office to find someone to talk to about this email. Apparently the lady I talked to this morning was from HR and she took down all the information that I gave her this so called trespass they were referring to was what happened last year in March, like fuck what 🤦‍♀️, I don’t know what happened communication wise but something didn’t connect.

The HR lady took my details and cellphone number and the name of the original person who made the trespass notice and the deputy who supported me and did the in-house sorting of things and told me she would get back to me it was meant to be a meeting it ended up being her ringing me and then sending an email to me 😐, I recently started working as a volunteer for the PTA second hand uniform shop which is on school grounds it’s one hour a week for one day, the library is also on the school property that I have been making bookmarks for.

I told them I would wait to hear back but in the mean time I let my head PTA lady and the chairman of the PTA know what was going on. As well as half my friends and a group I am in. ( cos the more support the better) we all thought it was weird cos if the trespass was valid then the person who wrote it has seen me on the school grounds and at the PTA shop and in the library and not once told me to leave. I have been doing stuff for the school for over a year and a half. But the day the school goes to vett me for the second hand shop is the day we get told it’s still active 🤦‍♀️, it’s been super awkward having to explain everything to someone new who you saw as a new mum friend, and also your boss.

What it comes down to is if my ex Damian had been an adult and a mature one at that an never made up some lie none of this shit would even be happening , clearly I was the only adult in the relationship he’s a man child who likes to play victim and has snowflake feelings you would never guess he is 48 and gen X which for me being gen X I find his behavior fuckin disturbing. My motto is “I don’t care” it’s how I deal with everything, if s relationship ends and they don’t want a friendship afterwards ( most of my exes I am friendly terms with) then I just move on and ignore them they usually don’t cause a scene or act like a child. I carry on with my life cos they are my past not my future they made a choice and I am letting them stick with it. ( if we date and break up then you don’t get a second chance once is enough for me )

So I found out at 1.30pm that I wasn’t trespassed , but there is a catch I can’t work there as a volunteer for the PTA or for any form of volunteering for the school cos my ex Damian works for the school as a groundsman and apparently me being on the school grounds or him knowing I am on the school grounds upsets his fuckin snowflake feelings ( fuck are they serious ….. yes they are) 😑 I also have to sign in anytime I step foot on the school grounds so they can know where I am and make sure he doesn’t see me or is in the same area, I can’t go to the library anymore to drop off the bookmarks I have to drop them off at the office ( which means catching up with the librarians and getting the odd free book is over) yes the HR lady from the school has told me all this in a phone call from the school. I upset his fragile feelings this is a guy who is who is 3 times the size of me, someone who the last time I saw was riding a fuckin golf cart if you can’t do your job properly or feel comfortable cos I am on school grounds then don’t go to browns bay cos the school rules don’t apply there and I might scar you for life if you see me there 😂, yeah that’s how fuckin childish it sounds.

He can tell the librarians why they wont be getting anymore bookmarks for the next two years and why I am no longer allowed in the library to talk to them and catch up. His snowflake feelings and immaturity is why I can’t be fucked with people, I am stopping all the stuff I do for the school for free, I am just going to go back to travelling all the money I used for free stuff I did for the school I will save up for travelling. Go see my friends in Australia at least they aren’t snowflakes and spending time with people who appreciate me without worrying about upsetting some fragile man child’s self esteem ( Grow the fuck up )

This is now going to be the first podcast from Giselle if you know her then you will know how to find her 😉