Parts 1&2 of Damian Gannaway

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Doing both parts together cos it's just easier I have other blogs I have way more interest in that I will be putting up later this week since I am doing nothing much but indoor exercise due to it going to be raining literally  for a week 🙄😑.


Today I am going to share with you abit about my last relationship yes it ended about 4yrs ago but there are now things that I never said anything about that should be addressed – first off the relationship ended when my ex decided he didn’t want to be in one anymore and ended it on my birthday 🙄 Secondly it was what followed 5mths after the relationship that has been the opening of my eyes and seen who he truly is that had made me not trust anything he ever said to me and realized he is a narcissistic person who doesn’t take responsibility for his actions and loves to play victim. Let’s start at Feb 2023– well school start my son goes to the biggest high school in Auckland – my ex is a groundsman there ( Damian Gannaway) – I would often come to the school afterwards and collect my child sometimes we would go to the library and gets some books out or to see what free ones they were giving away – I call it book rescuing 😂, I recently bought about 100 books on sale as the place I normally buy my books from is closing down permanently 😐, cost of obtaining them from overseas is too costly. One day I got called into one of the deputy principals offices he had a complaint that I was upsetting my exes mental health being on the school grounds – seriously 😳. Anyway I was told I had to wait off the school grounds til the bell rung – so i did and when he complained it was after school hours – anyway 3 weeks later this same deputy principal emails me telling me I can’t come onto the school grounds as my ex apparently had laid some police complaint ( it was completely false – went to the police station and spoke to the police my name wasn’t in their system and no complaint or case number was issued ) so he straight up lied to have me removed from the school grounds – with this information in hand I not only got a letter from the police saying this I got referred to a lawyer. Long story short I had a lot of reasons I could have had him legally charged -my goal was to clear my name and have the school assess how they deal with people who chose to lie about someone to have them trespassed for no reason – not only did I clear my name I told them I wouldn’t be laying charges simply cos I wasn’t vindictive.

Part 2

Well the charges I could have laid were defamation of character and harassment also he could have been charged with basically making a false complaint. The school has about 5 deputies the one I saw she is the head of all the deputies and she is one person I truly trust not only did she read the email that was sent to me she told me she would sort it out.

Told the deputy as well as my son’s dean who was present that I wasn’t going to lay charges against the school I wanted to clear my name and my character – I have learnt that people who lie so easily about something so serious as this are complusive liers and they do this to play victim – it’s narcissistic behavior – instead of being an adult and moving on in life they like the attention they get from playing victim so they make stuff up or lie to get the attention it’s super childish and very damaging to the people who aren’t strong like myself to stand up to someone like that – I already have one narcissist in my life I don’t want a second one. So I cleared my name the school dealt with him appropriately unfortunately his boss resigned from his job as he felt it was his responsibility to look into things before they got out of hand and that wasn’t done. My ex has had his work hours cut and now has to stay away from my son , and I can go back onto the school grounds all in all it was a super learning curve for the school and they will learn from this and take everything in to account – but it also means my ex will no longer be believed anything he says will now have to be proved with legal letters especially if something does happen he has also be told to stay away from me – he can’t come near me or contact me or even talk to me , I did tell them about how he bailed me up on the main street screaming at me about harassing him 😂😂😂 – I have not had contact with him since October 2022 when I finally got my house key back and I had proof of that . I do what I always do ignore and pretend they don’t exist if you are going to make up lies at least make them believable everyone who knows me knows there isn’t a snowballs chance in hell that I am going to harass you or even bother with you so maybe try to use that small brain cell in your head and grow the fuck up.



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